This week we have had a chat with Kerry, Principal of Little Voices West Kent.
We spoke about work/life balance whilst owning your own business and being a mum and Kerry even offers advice and her top tips for success.
How do you find the work/life balance?
My husband and I started Little Voices when I was 7months pregnant with
baby number 2. It was an exciting time for our family and I looked forward
for something more to do with my time during naps and early bedtimes.
Little Voices has provided me with an opportunity to work from home so that
I was available for my children. I remember phoning parents in the
beginning whilst my 3month old was asleep in a baby carrier on my chest
and the parents asking if I had a dog next to me or a sleeping baby? From
those early beginnings I have been able to involve my children in delivering
flyers and cupcakes to schools, end of term report pack production lines,
helping with music and prizes at community fairs, and have enrolled my own
children in lessons so we can sing and perform together both in the
classroom and at home.
Work/life balance is never easy for a working mum but I think what has
helped me with this has been utilizing my time effectively when my children
have been at pre-school or taking naps. I would schedule calls and emails
during naps and any visits, errands or sensitive matters would be planned
whilst they were at pre-school or primary school. I actually found my time to
be more effectively used in that way because I was focused and didn’t have
any time to get distracted.
What have been your top highlights from running your Little Voices
Highlights for me come under different categories:
Personal- my own 3yr old receiving her first solo exam certificate
Business- having people search out specifically for Little Voices because of
the feedback and praise they’d heard from friends or colleagues about what
we do and the reputation we have for helping young people achieve.
Community- Receiving a runner up award in the Kent Women in Business
Awards 2021 for resilience. Ooh AND definitely the sense of community that
comes at the end of a theatre week when children have not only learned
their lines and songs by heart, but have helped make scenery and costumes
from scratch, build friendships, adapted characters, and inspired each other.
Pupil achievements- seeing development and change over time as pupils
work hard toward a goal and successfully achieve it. For example one girl
struggling to reach the high notes in her song and then being able to belt
them confidently and keep them sustained. Another was a girl who struggled
severely with autism and was unable to attend mainstream school because
of it. Little Voices was her only outlet from home which she never missed.
From experience of nerves and uncertainty toward teachers generally, she
builds trust and a healthy relationship with her tutor and peers that she
confidently participated in a group musical theatre performance for a singing
and dance competition-on stage- in front of judges- and got invited back to
be in the finals.
Receiving exam results from LAMDA that our pupils achieved 100%
Distinctions across the board. This was a VERY exciting and proud moment
for us and definitely a highlight of why I love what I do.
I know you are working from the US at the moment. How do you manage
this? What do you have in place?
Little Voices values stress the importance of following your dreams and
teaches our pupils that you can achieve anything you put your mind to.
When I knew our family would be moving to America to support my husband
pursue his own dreams of being a choir director, I began training one of my
staff so she would feel confident being promoted to Vice Principal. I was
certain she had the same vision for Little Voices, was invested in what it
stands for, and most importantly, would have the same passion for tailoring
our lessons for individual success as I would in the same situation. The care,
compassion and musical knowledge would fit the role perfectly. And it has
worked! Steph and I speak at least twice weekly to check in, review goals
and make plans for Little Voices West Kent. We have termly planning
sessions on zoom with our tutors so we are all on the same page, and
discuss each of our pupils by name so our planning is child centred, fun and
caters for all the personalities we have in our lessons.
Outside of this, I have a very good alarm clock! Haha. Thankfully Ben leaves
for graduate school the same time as our children leave for their school bus
so if I have calls or meetings (virtual, no less), he is able to handle our
morning routine while I handle business, then we swap back when he has to
leave. It takes a lot of scheduling and sometimes my window of opportunity
is limited because of the 5hr time difference between Michigan and the UK,
but for the most part, with a lot of things moving online, I have only had a
handful of issues that weren’t able to be sorted in the moment.
What advice would you give someone who is having a baby and wanting to
diversify and run their own business?
Great question! Like most things, there’s never a ‘perfect time’, but its
certainly do-able. Having had our family grow from one to five children in
my time working with and being Principal of Little Voices West Kent, there
have been some incredible opportunities. I always wanted to teach my
children by example that hard work pays off. Being a business owner and
working mum allowed them to see the hard work that went on behind the
scenes. They didn’t just show up to a rehearsal and get given a script, they
saw the process of adapting scripts, printing, helped with stapling, putting
packs together, lyrics, choreographing routines, staging scenes with cups,
salt/pepper shakers, etc. as well as being prepared early with equipment for
when the first student arrives.
As for timetabling, my advice is- Be present; you can’t do everything at once
and neither should you be expected to. When you’re being mum, be mum
excellently. Then take that hat off when you can and become business
woman- and do it well. Then go back to being mum and vice-versa.
We have a catchphrase in our home: Work SMART! It involves being the
most productive you can without working yourself into the ground. It’s about
balance and priorities for what brings about the best outcome.
What was your background before joining the Little Voices family?
I loved to sing and perform from an incredibly early age. I took dance
lessons from age 4, entered speech competitions, sang and danced at
various theatres in Kent for shows and events, and remember the adrenaline
looking out into the audience and giving my all. As a teenager my confidence
was knocked quite significantly when the Head of Drama, in our first meeting
together, told me I should select a different option for GCSE. My heart
wanted to fight back and show her how capable I was but for some reason it
affected me so much I opted for Art instead (ironically Art was led by and I
was taught by her husband). I did well but always longed for theatre so
joined an a senior dance class and an amateur dramatic society to fill the
void and rebuild the confidence that had been lost.
Meanwhile, my parents were foster carers so we had many Looked After
Children in our home over the years. I saw how communication had a direct
impact on their lives, decisions they made, and actions they took. I was
selected to be on the activities committee with the fostering agency board of
directors acting as voice of families who fostered. It was so fun to see the
transformation that came when they agreed to organize a weekly dance club
for the Looked After Children. They had vision of our final performance, had
a purpose, and were an important part of a group so felt they mattered.
Each week as we developed the dance, their confidence increased and the
friendships grew. I was inspired to provide opportunities like this to young
people where they felt valued and part of something, despite their
Fast forward a few years, I completed a degree in Social Work, volunteered
18months overseas, met and worked with people from literally all over the
world and there, realized the strengths in my skillset. I then married a
musician, we toured the UK with a musical production, premiered said show
in the USA with a cast we’d had only virtual rehearsals with (back before it
was the norm and before zoom ever existed), I certified as a Gym instructor
and completed various Zumba instructor qualifications, and then slowed
things down a bit when I became a mother.
My perspective developed while providing for another person. I felt a
responsibility to her to ensure she had the best opportunities, that she knew
who she was and was happy enjoying life without influence from others – I
was certain nobody would knock her confidence or make her doubt her
When the opportunity to become part of Little Voices came along, I was 7
months pregnant with our 2 nd child, we were getting ready to move house,
my husband was graduating (again) from university, and we were ready for
a new adventure. So we thought long and hard about all the ins and outs,
and decided Kent was going to be the place we set roots for Little Voices –
to provide something to the community that helped raise me. To give
something back, but also to prove locally that you really can rise above what
people might think or say about you, turn it around and make something
great from it.
Little Voices perfectly combined my desire to run a business,
to provide opportunities for my children to be surrounded by positive
influences, to involve them in music and drama (because of all the
academic, and socio-emotional benefits that come from that), to be
accepted, and ultimately know that there was someone who believed in
them and would support them to achieving their goals.
I started as centre coordinator, voice tutor, and theatre week manager.
Then over time as my husband’s work became more time consuming, I
eventually took over as Principal in a seamless transition. It has been
incredible to see so so many children flourish in their personalities whilst
having fun. They have developed their skills, made lifelong friends,
connected with characters from theatre in new ways, learned life skills and
increased in confidence to not only speak out but to follow their dreams.
What 5 qualities do you think it takes to run a successful Little Voices
– Confident and care-FULL communication
– Strategic planning / organisation
– Creativity/outside the box thinking
What would your 3 top tips be for being a mum in business?
– Plan your work and work your plan.
– Be Kind! Especially to yourself.
– When things get tough- GET up, DRESS up, SHOW up but never ever
give up on achieving your dreams.
If you are from the West Kent area and would love to find out more about Little Voices head to https://littlevoices.org.uk/location/west-kent/